Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Fuss Bus Driver

Every time we head out shopping, especially to the local Safeway, Rini
is drawn to the balloons. She has one at home right now, but she
always likes to play with the other ones. Maybe because they still
have all their helium, or maybe because they're shiny. In any case,
that's the first thing she goes for, where ever she finds them.

Maybe I'll put that in my book. A character that loves balloons.

Ok, I'm going to have to go and stockpile some sleep. I was having
trouble keeping my eyes open today.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Indoor exercise

We didn't go to a park today, but Rini and I got quite a bit of
exercise by playing with exercise equipment that we have at home. We
don't have a Bowflex or anything quite like that, but we have the
swivel board, the balance board, and Rini's giant swivel board that we
picked up at IKEA. At one point, Rini was standing on the giant IKEA
board, and I was on the swivel board, and we were doing a sort of
dance. Rini can also stand on the balance board all my herself now!
She does still like to grab onto my legs every now and then. She is
such a cutie, and her balance is amazing. I'm not saying that we're
going to take her on a zip line tomorrow or get her to walk across
Niagara Falls on a tightrope, but I'm sure she's going to be trying
crazy things soon enough.

Sooner than I'm ready for too.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Weekend comin' at ya!

For some odd reason I'm finding it a little difficult to write. I think it might be due to the fact that we have ABBA playing in the background, while we usually don't have any music playing in our house when we're winding down for bed. That being said, we're not at home right now, we are chez Tolley. Grandma and Grandpa Tolley were going to be looking after Rini tomorrow when we went to High School Musical 3 and the original idea was that we were going to pick up the FemtoWriMo and then head out to the NaNo kick off party. I was actually hoping that mom Tolley was going to get on board with NaNoWriMo, and we even mentioned that you can work on a novel that you are already working on, but she still said no. Shame. In any case, we'll be coming back out to Beaumont after the soirée at the bibliothèque. We also have not been able to get a hold of Kloe, so we won't be taking her to the kick off party either.

I was reading a letter from Tristan today, and he'll be back in nine months. In the letter he mentioned that if any of the female sort conceive right about now, he'll be home in time for the delivery! Hey, for all we know, he'll get off the plane, and he'll deliver the baby! Are we pregnant? Uh... no. Not that I know of anyway. We are hoping that we'll be expanding our family soon, but children requires a team: Mother, Father and Heavenly Father. At least that's what I think. Others are of the opinion that if you fail, you're not trying hard enough!

I'll just leave it at that.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

NRG

Rini just runs and runs these days. Good thing we take her out to parks most everyday! It's nice to have a schedule that allows me to do so. However, in a couple of weeks, when we go out to the park, it's going to be dark out. It's something you get used to, but that doesn't mean that I look forward to it.

I'm not really sure if that's why I've been a bit off today, but Caitlin noticed that my mood didn't lift after she fed me, and I wasn't overjoyed when Rini was climbing on the rope ladder by herself today. Normally I would be up there with my cell phone taking a video or a picture, but today, I just took a look up, watched her climb, smiled, and went back to the book that I got from the library.

Yes, we went back to the mall today, but only because Caitlin couldn't find the pattern that she bought on Tuesday. Upon inspection of the receipt, we found that it wasn't rung through, and she was charged twice for the batting she bought. Well, now we know what went wrong, and the interesting thing was that the ladies working at Fabricland knew too. When Caitlin went in to resolve the issue, the pattern was sitting behind the counter in anticipation of my wife's arrival. So Caitlin is going to cut out the pieces tonight, and start sewing tomorrow. I would think that she should be able to get the costume done for next Friday.

Funny thing is that I haven't given much thought as to what we are going to do for Hallowe'en. I was only thinking about the costumes. I wasn't thinking about the 'Trick or Treating' or if we were going to any parties. Maybe we'll go to the Millwoods Town Center thing. Then again, the Tolley's might have something in store as well. Have to talk to them about that soon!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Lack of TV

For the past few days, I've made a habit of going out to one of the parks close to our home. I mention this, because we went to a different park today. We went to the park at Millwoods Town Center, and we walked there. By we, I mean Caitlin, Rini, and myself. Caitlin has been working out at Millwoods Rec Center on a pretty regular basis, every other day. Today was the off day, and I figured that a good walk would do us all good. Why Millwoods town center? Caitlin needed some fabric for Rini's Hallowe'en costume. I'm hoping that she'll be able to get the costume together in the next ten days.

Rini is surprising me more and more each day. When we go to the park, I don't have to watch her that much. Although, I am quite paranoid when she climbs things that take her higher than two feet off the ground. She's quite adept at climbing ladders, or ladder-like things. The rope ladders she's a little shaky, but that, I'm very sure, will improve with time. She has quite a bit of upper body strength, and I say this because yesterday when she was climbing up a sort-of ladder, her feet completely slipped out from under her. I was at little worried, and I had my hands out to catch her, but she never graced my skin. She held onto the ladder on her own power, and continued climbing.

That little girl is going places, and I'm going to have to come to terms with that one day.

But not today.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Downward Facing Puppy

For some odd reason, when our hometeachers were over tonight, Rini got
into a very hyper mood. She was running around, and then going into
her "Downward Facing Puppy" move, in which she stands with her feet
shoulder width apart, then bends over until her head touches the
floor. She then balances on her head, or rather tries to, and then
falls over. Needless to say, this little girl dropped off like a
light when she finally went to bed.

We were also getting a little concerned at church today when we were
waiting to get set apart for our new callings. Rini was starting to
really fuss and carry on, probably because she wasn't used to sticking
around after church. For some odd reason, we had Dory with us, and
that provided sufficient distraction for her. Then she was walking
around, and she stopped at the south coat closest, pointed inside and
said, "Paka!" Wouldn't you know, someone had left a Makka-pakka doll
on top of the coat racks. I got it down, and told her that it wasn't
hers, and she could play with it now, but we would have to leave it
behind.

She was very understanding of that, and she had a ball with that
little guy. Especially once she figured out that it can sing. She's
still happy with the little Makka-pakka doll that she has at home, but
just for the fact that she was happy for those extra moments while we
were set apart made all the difference.

The funny thing is that the Bishop had never heard of "In the Night
Garden," and everytime we mentioned Makka-pakka, he thought we talking
about Michael Peca. That would be funny if the Oilers defenceman
(forward? I don't really know) sang the Makka-pakka song and did the
corresponding dance. Hee hee!

I'm just amazed that Rini was able to see that doll in the coat room
since the light was off!

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Pach

I rather pleased with Rini's progress with conversational skills.
Although if she wants something, she still just says, "Peas." She
hasn't learned to specify what it is she wants. For example, at the
park today, when we she wanted up onto or down from the swings, she
just said "Pease." I told her what she needed to say, but it was
received in a 'yeah, thanks, I'll do that next time, daddy' kind of
way. I really spoil my girls, and I'm sure that's not the best thing
to do.

Earlier, I mentioned that she was getting into the whole, "Seh, GO!"
thing, and now, she actually enunciates the word 'set'. Now she says,
"Set. Go!" with a very sharp 'tuh' at the end of 'set.' I was so
pleased! Yes, small sucesses, but next thing I know, she'll be asking
for $20 to put on her cell phone bill.

Friday, October 17, 2008

SRIGU

I have heard multiple times that children grow up faster than you
realize. The first time I had one of those, "She really is growing
up" moments was when we were washing her in the tub, and I noticed
that her fingers were signifigantly longer than I remembered.

Today was another SRIGU moments. We went to the park, and the whole
way there she was saying "Paok, paok, paok." She knew where we going,
and she was letting everyone know. Mind, she wasn't very loud, and I
only realized what she was saying in retrospect. At the time I
thought she was saying the french word for "seal," but I figured that
I was mistaken. Turns out I was right.

At the public recreational area, which my daughter refered to as the
Thessaloniki Football team, the first thing she wanted to do was go on
the swings. At first, we went on the baby swings, and I realized that
she's gettnig a bit big for them when her bot got stuck when I got her
out. She then wanted to try the bigger swings, and I obliged by
getting on the swing, and then putting her on my lap. She squired and
struggled, and I let her down because I thought she wanted to go on
the slide next. Surprise, she went to the swing next to me, and tried
to get on it. I helped her onto the seat, told her to hang on - which
she did - and I gave her a push. That was the SRIGU moment. When I
saw her holding onto that swing, smiling and giggling and saying
"Wheee" as she went back and forth, I felt a little heartbroken.

She really is growing up.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Swimming girl

Day two of the exercise regime, and we're still going! By we, I mean
Caitlin of course, but Rini and I went swimming while Caitlin worked
out in the gym while Rini and I had some fun in the wave pool, the
kiddie pool, and the hot tub. Mostly, Rini was all about climbing up
and down the stairs. Sillly girl! She was also quite brave going out
into the waves, and was holding her own quite well. Once we got into
the deeper water, I had to hold onto her, but she was still having
fun. She's also starting to get the hang of the idea that if water
goes in your mouth, don't breathe it in. Still learning, but she's
getting there.

We went for dinner before we went swimming, and decided to try
something new, and we went to a Chinese restuarant close to MRC. Our
waitress brought some fortune cookies for Rini, and we got Rini to say
thank you. Of course, she only says it in Mandarin right now, so when
she said "Sheh-sheh," our waitress's jaw dropped in surprise. "She
learn Manadrin? How she learn?" We then explained that Rini watches
a TV program where they teach Chinese, and she was further surprised.
When we left, she told Rini "Tzai Chen!" Rini tried to parrot her,
but all she got out was "CHEN!"

What a precious girl we have. :)

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

And the beat goes on

Although there was a lot of things that happened today, I can't help
but feel it was not an extra-ordinary day.

Mind, we all went to Wal-Mart for the first time in about a year, in
order to use the gift certificates from Jess and Chris. We got a
couple of movies that we've been meaning to pick up. I was trying to
see if there was a PS2 game that caught my eye, but nothing drew me
in. Most of the movies at Wal-Mart didn't jump out at me either, but
there were a few that caught my eye. The Black Cauldron, The
Aristocats, and we also got a Christmas present for Erik as well.
Yes, we are actually doing some advance shopping this time around!

I picked up Caitlin's workout bra yesterday, and today she went and
got a one month membership at Millwoods Rec Center. She immediately
put both to use, and has plans to continue attending for the next 30
days. Probably three times a week, if not more. Bonus if she can go
everyday, but we'll see how that works. How it is right now, Rini and
I will have some daddy-daughter time while Caitlin goes to work out.
I wonder how this is going to work next month, with NaNoWriMo going
on. I guess we'll see!

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

The Vote is Cast

Really tired tonight. Tired to the point that I was falling asleep at
work today. Not good.

By the time I went to vote I was plenty awake, and I had to be, since
I was chasing around Rini for a good part of the time that we were at
the polling station! I'm not sure if she fully understood why we were
there, but she enjoyed the time outside!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Visit with family

Rini had a couple of firsts today, many of them centered around the visit to my parents. Today was her first time on a gravel road, which was a bit of a freaky experience for me, but I used the knowledge that I gained from the last unfortunate incident on gravel: Don't go faster than you feel comfortable, no matter what the speed limit is. At times, I was going 50 kph, although the posted limit was 80. I really didn't care when we got there, so long as we got there alive! You learn that when you roll a car on loose gravel..

But, on to happier things! Rini also saw a horse up close for the first time today, and she went for a ride on Lacey Jane too! Bareback riding, and I was walking along side holding onto her, as was my dad, and mom was leading Lacey. She looked so cute up there! I wanted to get up and ride with her, but Lacey was pretty wet, and we didn't have time to dry off my pants. We didn't have time to dry off Rini's pants either. But since the horsie ride was the last thing we did before we left, we took off the wet pants, put her in her carseat with a blanket wrapped around her legs, and turned up the heat. She was okay until we got some dry pants for her at the Tolleys.

The other great news is that while at my parents place, we picked up a bed for Rini. I had completely forgotten that Jess had dropped it off who knows how long ago. But as soon as mom mentioned it, I was up like a rocket and we were taking a look at the bed. It was a perfect little bed for Rini, and we already had the crib mattress, so that worked even better! We put it together tonight, but I think we were missing a couple of support boards. It's not really a huge problem right now, but as long as she stays at her current weight, and doesn't jump on the bed too much, we'll be okay. We'll have to go back sometime and see if there are any other boards out there. It looks like two were missing.

But the important thing is that Rini has a bed to sleep in! No more sleeping in the playpen for her! Now we can save up to get a single bed for her.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Moving house

Today was the big move for some friends of ours. Although they were only moving a couple of blocks south, they are moving to a new church ward, and they didn't get much notification as to the what's what, and the who's who. They know when they go to church, and when, but it's a bit of a challenge for them to get their whole family there, since they would have to take the bus. A car is in the future, they have it now, just the licence is still in the works.

I was amazed that everything was so organized, and there wasn't really a whole lot to move. Mind, this is because they got rid of a LOT of stuff, old clothing, junk, and things that they had not looked at since they moved in there! Made for a lighter load, but we did have a few things that broke in transit. The exploding plastic boxes for one! Good ol' Ikea. "Enjoy your affordable Swedish crap!" says the Ikea robot as it falls apart while leaving.

Caitlin, Rini and I are going to have to pay them a visit once they get on their feet, and there is a lot less cardboard in there. One of these days, Caitlin and I are going to have to clean out all our junk, that would reduce the amount of clutter we have in our place signifigantly!

The Big Three Oh

Late posting - Should have posted yesterday, but I was too tired to transfer from iPaq.
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I think I'm getting into the whole dad thing now, because of the milestone I just passed. At the same time, I did think that I would have more than one child by the time I was thirty. I should dig out that French work book where we did an exercise of what we think our lives would be like when we're 30. I have no idea where it is though.

I'm still tired from yesterday, and I'm helping Kenzie and Gary move. Woof. I'm going to bed.

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Welcome Home

I don't honk my horn very often, such to the point that I sometimes
wonder if it works, but I used it tonight and felt very justified in
doing so. Rini was more interesting in the noise the car was making,
rather than the reason why, and I'm sure if she were a little older,
it would have been a great teaching moment. I honked my horn when we
were stopped in traffic on 99st and Sask. Drive. Why was traffic
stopped? To allow the Canadian troops and their police escort to get
through. I know that honking my horn to welcome them home is a
pretty weak thing to do, but I remember what it was like when my dad
was over in Croatia, and how I felt when he came home, and he was just
doing peacekeeping. My former co-worker had a much rougher time when
her then fiancee, now husband, was in Afganistan, and she was
overjoyed when he returned home.

It's hard to explain to children how war works, and why we wage it.
I'm going to have to do it some time, but I think that I'll be using
examples from the Book of Mormon, ie. 2060 strilping warriors, Capitan
Moroni, Teancum, just to name a few. Righteous people who just wanted
freedom for their homes and families.

I seem to recall a radio news story which told of a survey amoung
college students, and maybe some high school students, regarding what
they would accept as payment to give up their right to vote. Some
were satisfied with an iPod. Although your voice may seem small an
insignifigant, especially with stories of fraud and miscounts of
ballots, I still have faith in the system.

Speaking of which, I still need to hanker down and investigate who to
vote for on Tuesday. If only Mr. Kimball hadn't retired. Well, one
candidates headquarters is located across the road from our home, so
we could check it out tomorrow, or Friday.

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Beautiful Balloon

I'm not sure what it is with Rini and balloons, but she absolutely
loves them. When we were at Safeway today, there was a lost balloon
on the ceiling, and I couldn't reach it to bring it down for her.
Then I got the brilliant idea of lifting up Rini so she could grab it!
Yeah, that didn't work either. I'm happy to say that she didn't
fall, I am not that reckless, but at the same time, I don't think she
felt that comfortable reaching up to grab it, with daddy holding onto
her below. Not time for the circus for her!

Another reason I feel she is strongly attached to balloons is because
of her coniptions whenever we take away the balloon that we did get
her. Even when we tied the balloon to her wrist, she would shriek and
shriek! Even on her zipper pull, SHRIEK! In the end, we tied it to
one of her mittens, and then put her mitten on, and she was fine. I
don't understand, but I am glad it worked.

We also bumped into some people from our ward, the Habings, as we were
walking to Safeway. Funny, but I never remember talking to very many
people from our ward outside of church. Probably because whenever we
were out, we never were out when people in the ward were typically out
and about! I love this new job!

Monday, October 06, 2008

Curious Cllimber

Rini's newest feat is climbing into her high chair. I know, I'm going
crazy about little things, but I keep getting reminders that childhood
only comes by once in your lifetime, and you should treasure every
moment. I should have also mentioned that Rini is now 33.75" tall (or
long, depending if you are a pediatrician), and seems to be growing
more everyday!

I'm thinking that she learned the climbing into her highchair from her
cousin, who is six months and two days older than her, but I'm not
sure where she learned her new favourite phrase. It's still a bit of
baby babble, but from what I could decipher, she was trying to say
"Ready... Set... GO!" The "GO" was very audible, and the "Set" was a
little quieter, but I'm not sure if she ever said "Ready." She would
just repeat, "Shehhhh, GO!" The "Shehh" would stay at the same
volume, but the "GO" was progressively louder with each repitition.
We had to shush her after awhile, but she said it for Grandma over the
phone. I should see if Rini would want to talk with Grammie and
Grandpa. I should at the very least send a CD with those videos we
have of Rini. Although I took them on my cell phone, they are OK
quality, so long as you watch them on a small screen! Our digital
camera can take video, but it doesn't record any sound, so it does not
help for recording any kind of speech development. Maybe we should
get a video camera. HA HA HA HA!!!! No. I would rather save the
money for her first bicycle. Or some kind of prohibitive expense,
like a bed. That's going to be rearing its head sooner than we
realize. I hate that thought. Maybe I'm a bad person, since the
wicked take the truth to be hard.

Caitlin: {Rolls eyes}

My idea is to follow what my co-worker did. Went from crib, to
mattress on the floor, to single bed. Japan they have bed mats, and
even have meals on the floor too. Yes, I know, this is not Japan, but
that does not mean that we have to have everything.

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Gratitude

It's funny, but I remember ten years ago I was in the MTC
participating in Conference, and President (actually, Elder at the
time) Monson gave an address about how we should be grateful for our
mothers and the great lessons and sacrifices that they have done for
us all.

Today, he gave a similar address about appreciating the journey. How
we shouldn't wait for things to happen, or for the right time to come,
because by and large, the 'perfect' time never does come. Hence I
would have say, again, that I am very grateful for my parents. I'm
not sure if I thanked them appropriately for helping me with repaying
my student loans the past couple years, but especially this past year
is was keeping us alive financially. When August hit, I was truly
worried, because I didn't know how we were going to get by if I didn't
get a new job. I was stressed to the point that I could not sleep,
nor find comfort in the fact that I was on vacation. I was pretty
much pleading with Heavenly Father that I would get this new job, and
by so doing, be able to provide better for my family.

I did get the new job, and in retrospect, my parents were not only
helping us financially, but spiritually as well. Since I didn't have
to worry about the finances as much, I could dedicate what little time
to my family. Time is one of the most valuble resources we have, and
it's best the we use it wisely.

That was something mentioned in the Priesthood session as well. Elder
Uchtdorf said, "The Lord loves a noble servent, instead of a
self-serving noble." A little bit different in message, I suppose,
but the underlying idea is the same. We are more of what the Lord
wants us to be when we think outside of ourselves. Or, "Stand close
together and lift where you stand" also hits it on the mark too.

I'm very glad that I took notes last night! I'm also amazed that the
Saturday session has already been video archived and posted online!
We watched Elder Worthlin's talk again this morning, and I was
corrected by who said what. I didn't take notes for that session.
Oops.

I come back to my parents, and the fact that they instilled in me a
love for the words of the prophets. Back in my day (I can't believe I
just wrote that), we stayed at the Stake Center for six hours on both
Saturday and Sunday to take advantage of all sessions of Conference.
Sometimes I would wonder why we had to stay, but now I have to try to
fret when Rini distracts me, which is quite easy for a 19-month old to
do! Amazing what a couple of decades will do, eh?

Saturday, October 04, 2008

Success

Conference went well. We only had one major crash, and I was able to
get it back up and running within a couple minutes. Kind of weird
working with a giant screen. Rini surprised me a couple times during
conference. She actually sat beside me and folded her arms for the
first ten minutes straight! She also did the same thing a few hours
later in the second session. Simply amazing.

The biggest surprise was the announcement of the Calgary Alberta
Temple! Wow! I would think that Jess, Chris, and Liz and company in
Southern Alberta should be quite pleased with that announcement! I'm
going to guess that the next Canadian temple will be in Ottawa, but
then again, I could be wrong. Vancouver might get their own temple
before then. The important thing, for me anyway, would be to attend
the temple here in Edmonton. That was the reason they built it. I
was planning to attend sometime this month, but I still need to get a
hold of Dad. He's the only with the plan, and I think he said that it
would be on the 18th of the month. I could be wrong, but I hope it's
not next weekend.

October 11 I'm helping some friends move, and they have already lost
some of their helpers. That's how the chips fall sometimes.

If all goes well tomorrow, we'll be heading home about 8pm. If not, I
don't know what we're going to do. But I have been charged with
keeping Rini occupied, or else we won't be going home. Caitlin needs
to get her sewing project done for tomorrow, and unless she can focus
her undivided attetion, it won't get done. Sad but true.

Intertesting thing of note. Rini is starting to favour her left hand.
I am quite sure that it's too early to tell if she will be
left-handed, but this girl is quite the creative sort. I wonder how
well she would relate to Auntie Liz.

There was also a talk in Conference, I believe it was Elder
Worthlin's, in which I was reminded about a time I learned true
terror. Kind of silly in retrospect, but I was never quite as scared
as I've been in my life before as when I thought I lost Rini. I was
out front, putting something in the car, and I turned around, and Rini
was gone. I looked on the road, not there. Across the street, not
there. In the backyard, not there. Only then did I think of looking
West, and there she was on their steps, looking at their kitty. I
usually don't worry about Rini, but at that moment, I was in a panic,
and terror was contorting my mind to all sorts of bad ends.

Made me wonder if our Heavenly Father thinks the same when his spirit
children lose their way. He knows how things will work, and he is
eternally patient, but he is our Father, and knows that we can make
mistakes and get lost from time to time.

Friday, October 03, 2008

Bigger is not always better

I am currently typing this out on my home computer, but I have it hooked up to a 52" TV.  Pretty cool, when you think about it, but at the same time, I'm not going to do it to my TV when I get home.  Well, maybe, but I'm not going to leave it like that.  The resolution is rather poor since he connection is S-video.  I'm sure it would look better on a smaller screen, and our TV is signifigantly smaller than 52"!  I have it hooked up with the hope of watching conference using the internet.  It won't be a perfect picture, but it will be something, and it will be better than crowding around the computer screen.
 
The only big problem that I forsee is keeping the cords out of the way.  I can see Rini or Aldo tripping across the cables, and POOF!  We have to wait until they archive it online  That would be about a day, but it's better to hear somethings live.  Needless to say, Conference is going to be quite the experience this time around.  Especially since I have the wifi set up Chez Tolley.  We might have an audiio stream running upstairs, because if we had two video streams running that would eat up too much bandwidth.  At least I think so.  I don't really want to experiment with it too much, because we would miss conference!  I suppose we could try during the musical numbers or something.  I am not blessed with the gift of perfect foresight, or else I would be working for CSIS. 

Thursday, October 02, 2008

Wow she's smart! Or average...

As I mentioned earlier, Rini can say a few words in Chinese, of which we were somewhat surprised. I'm thinking it's the fact that Chinese is more tonal than english, or maybe it's just the fact that she's working with a blank slate. You would have to forget most everything that you know about english to even begin to learn Chinese. It might also be the fact that it's easier for her to say. I don't know. "Thank you" as compared to "Shieh-shieh" (rough enunciation), or "Ni-hao" compared to "Hello."

I also thought Rini was making progress with drinking from a cup! Nineteen months old and she can drink from a cup all by herself! Wow! Yeah. Turns out that back in the day, sippy cups didn't exist, and kids learned to drink from a cup as soon as they were weaned. Some at one year, some earlier. Crumbs.

I think I'm going to start teaching her Greek.